More and more often, employees are expected to contribute
to the performance and success of their work teams. While
it sounds great on paper, it isn't all that easy to work
in a team, since often team members are different in style,
attitude, commitment and work ethic. If you are a work team
member, supervise, manage or lead a team, take a good look
at these tips and hints which will make it easier for team
members to contribute more productively to their teams,
and decrease friction among team members. Stay tuned to
the Teamwork File, though, because we have more suggestions
on this topic!
Stop The Blaming Cycle
Often teams get bogged down in blaming members when things
go wrong. As a team member you can do two things to stop
this wasteful and destructive team behavior. First, eliminate
blaming language you may use. Replace blaming and finger-pointing
coments or questions with a focus on solving problems, or
preventing problems. Second, if other team members get into
the blaming cycle, step in and "turn" the conversation
back to a constructive approach. For example, here's a good
phrase: "Ok, maybe we could save some time here
by trying to ensure that the problem doesn't happen again,
so what can we do to prevent it next time?"
Focus On The Present And Future
This is related to the blaming cycle. Don't dwell on the
past. Use the past (successes and team failures) to help
the team determine where they need to go to improve. You
can't change the past -- you can only use it to learn from.
Stop Back Channel Talk
Stop Creating Conflict
It's better to prevent unnecessary conflict than to manage conflict once
the flames have started. Click
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Communication
Talking about a team member in private with another
team members usually involves a blaming process. While
sometimes it's good to vent frustration about a fellow
team mate, you shouldn't be doing it within the team.
It's counter productive, and harmful. Stop doing it
unless you have a specific, constructive reason for
doing so.
Personal Responsibility
Take responsibility for your behavior and the results that
your team produces, but NOT the behavior of your team mates.
When you take responsibility for another member's actions,
you will tend to want to change your team mate, something
that often creates dissension.
Finally, focus on YOUR contributions. Don't spend your
time thinking about or telling team mates what THEY should
be doing for the team. Think about what you can contribute,
and how you can contribute more effectively. Then do it.
For example, if you have a great suggestion, don't dump
it in the group with the expectation that someone else will
implement it. You offer to do it...after all it's your suggestion.
An Innovative Approach To Conflict!
Conflict
Prevention In The Workplace - Using Cooperative Communication
is one of the few books that explains how to prevent
conflict rather than manage it. Learn how to modify
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Learn
To Use Your Head When Dealing With Conflict
The
choices you make when involved in conflict determine
whether good comes from it or bad. Using Your Head
to Manage Conflict Helpcard explains your various
conflict management options, and when to use each
one.
Stop
reacting and start thinking and making the right conflict
management decisions.